The Hope Filter

hope Oct 21, 2019

How often do you think about ~ or yet talk about ~ hope? The way it’s used in modern parlance, is more of a “wish.”  Right?  

  • I hope it doesn’t rain.
  • I hope I get those tickets.
  • I hope I win the lottery.

There isn’t any substance behind those statements. No solid ground on which to stand. Nothing worth truly investing any emotional or mental energy in.

That’s not hope.  I’m sure you know that… but do you really KNOW it? Understand it and apply it?   

What does Hope look like?   

For sure, hope is about the future… as I said last week, the future is where life is lived - in front of us, facing forward.  When hope is present, there is an expectation of something good around the bend. It provides the space for a self-fulfilling prophecy.  We expect good things, which then changes how we act today - and we begin to do things that prepare us for the future yet to come. We end up changing our direction and destination. The prophet Jeremiah told his suffering friends, “I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.” 

~ Tomorrow will be good ~
Then why do I doubt?
What do I fear will happen?

Hope also shows us possibilities.  It helps us ask “what if…”? If we think we have no options, we feel stuck and defeated.  Hope is that “thing” that helps us believe and understand that no matter how limited the choices may seem ~ right now ~ there’s usually an answer or solution we’ve yet to see. What if I ask more questions? What if I ask for help? The apostle James said to ask God for wisdom. After all, He’s generous and doesn’t mind giving it out. Amazingly, options begin to present themselves. 

~ The possibilities are endless ~ 
Do I doubt the options are out there?
Do I fear options?

Finally, hope allows us to change our perspective. What if I look at it from a different angle? My view can’t possibly be the only one.  Hope gives me the courage to step away from my vantage point just enough to catch a glimpse of another angle. The picture totally shifts ~ like zooming in or out on your camera lens.  The apostle Peter told his First Century friends to focus their hopes firmly on the grace of God. That certainly broadens the perspective ~ all the way out. 

~ Perspective makes a difference ~
Do I doubt mine can change?
Do I fear other’s perspectives?

Hope is not a wish, it’s a filter based on eternal truths.  When we view our circumstances through that filter, doubts and fears become more manageable, allowing us to focus on what is true. Hope is the first step to change, toward the future, with all its possibilities. Hope is the antidote to fear and doubt. 

How does understanding hope allow you to move forward?  

Head over to my Facebook page and let me know… or better yet, join our Intentional Optimist Facebook Group, and join a community of women helping, teaching and mentoring other women. There you will find a safe place where we:

   * Celebrate the wonder in life.
   * Move forward with hope and openness.
   * Share wisdom and encouragement, offering each other a helping hand. 
   * Ask freely, and share lavishly.
   * Celebrate our differences as avenues of growth and expansion.  

Jump on in - it’s time to laugh at the days to come! 

~ Andrea


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There are events in life that define our journey. Once they happen, we begin describing everything else as “before X” or “after X”. For me,it was the day my mother died. Suddenly, I became aware of my own limited timeline. The drive to find my voice, purpose and place became urgent. I dove in, head first, and discovered the desire to help myself fueled a greater desire - to help others. Soon, I stopped defining myself in terms  of roles (wife, mother, manager),  but in terms of qualities: curious, determined, happy, adventurous. I've come to understand, that the qualities that make us who we are, are what we must celebrate. We each have a special purpose, unique perspective, and unlimited potential. Better yet, we can both discover and develop them.   

I do this through speaking, training, coaching and writing -  with a focus on helping women grow into the leaders they truly are. Intentional Optimism is my philosophy of life, and includes these five pillars:

          Optimistic - Hopeful, Positive Proactive

          Present - Seeking Wonder, Generous, Kind

          Courageous – Leading Others, Adventurous, Resilient

          Energetic - Industrious, Excitement, Life-focused

          Wise - In Respect, Words and having Understanding

          Intentional - Purposeful, Planning, Growth Mindset

I'm building a global community of women helping women. A place where we foster leadership from every stage or position in life. A place where we celebrate wonder; move forward with hope and openness; share wisdom and encouragement; offer each other a helping hand; ask freely, and share lavishly; and celebrate our differences as avenues of growth and expansion.

Let’s  change our understanding of what it means to work, provide for our families, have financial stability, and be a leader in the community. Life is an adventure - let's live it to the fullest!  

It’s time to laugh at the days to come! - Prov. 31:25

Won’t you join me on the journey?